helpmeout, 41 in PEMBROKE DOCK - Wales

I'm sure everyone says this but REALLY I don't usually do this sort of thing. I haven't had a relationship for a while and naturally miss having sex, and have some major money worries due to being a total disaster with anything budgetary. I am a VERY voluptuous size 18-20 and on the shy and retiring side but I rather like a firm hand. I would be awfully grateful to know if you have any ideas of how you could help me out.