rcbd169, 43 in Birmingham - Midlands

hi! im genuine and love deep conversations about anything and everything.always inquisitive and asking questions, always wanting to learn more. very well travelled, and have learned a lot about life and met many people along my journey.i love people watching, so interesting! i love history and historical sites; after all, we are all already the history of our past! i love philosophy and talking about reasoning and why people do what they do!! im feisty and assertive in my job. confident and intellectual, yet warm and giving at the same time. good fun and passionate always. very loyal, very caring and extremely thoughtful, always putting that extra effort in to make things special. people say im always good fun to be around. im a creative person, who adores art and music and gains joy from the tiny things in life which may stir an emotion or memory.love the theatre and watching thought provoking films, eg, the reader,kite runner... fantastic! enjoy silly humour on tv and crappy soaps too, though not addicted! happy to do a range of things; ie, from camping to five star hotels. variety is the spice of life and all that! some say i am a bit quirky; i have no idea what "normal" is these days or ever was, so i have no idea! who wants to be "normal" anyway?! i have a bit of OCD aswell; dont panic, i dont have to wash my hands every 5 minutes or take my own cutlery to a restaurant, but i do check my back door about 8 times when i leave the house and stare at the iron plug to check it is out of the socket!! ok, maybe, i am a little odd then........ i have a dry humour.i love quick wit.i find humour and intellect extremely attractive in a man.i enjoy play on words, very entertaining. my bug bear is spelling (maybe because im a teacher, i dont know!) and i do know im not using capital letters on here!i like dance, sport, keep fit, food!ie, eating out and cooking in. im not a skinny girl and never will be! that doesnt mean im fat either, im curvy and c